Men Vs Women: In most of the romantic films, stories or novels made not only in India but all over the world, it is shown that women love more deeply than men. Not only this, women are more loyal and dedicated in relationships than men. Does the same happen in real life too? Do women really love more than men? Can the depth of love be measured in any way? Do women prove to be more loyal than men? Can love be defined in any way? Some experts have done research and studies to find answers to such questions.
Some recent research and studies have challenged such long-standing beliefs about love between women and men. Professor of Human Development at Cornell University, Dr. Robert J. Sternberg believes that each person is different from the other. However, some behavior and conduct are similar in almost all people. He believes that all humans have some things in common regarding love affairs, relationships and love for their children. Barring a few cases, all are very devoted to their close relationships.
How to know about true love?
Dr. Sternberg says that true love consists of being able to share yourself with another human being, giving and receiving emotional support when needed. Apart from this, if you feel that you feel confident being with someone in times of struggle and upheaval, then you are emotionally attached to that person. On the other hand, if you want to make someone else happy before yourself, then definitely you are in love with him. Mothers have always been recognized for this important behavior all over the world. It is also said that women are more sacrificial than men.
Why don't men appear to be lovers?
America's renowned pastor and social reformer Henry Ward Beecher had said that outside heaven there can be no better companion than a woman who truly loves you and there can be no better companion than a mother for all loving women. Is. With this statement, he has also described the mother as the most loving person. At the same time, mothers know that men can also be equally loving. Women are often thought of as more delicate and vulnerable, but this is because men often hide their feelings. Most of the times, they keep trying to appear normal by suppressing their emotions.
Who hurts more when the relationship breaks up?
According to Psychology Today, it is wrongly viewed that women love more deeply than their partners. Whereas, men actually go through immense emotional turmoil inside their mind and heart. When a man breaks his heart, that is, when there is a rift in the relationship, a man feels as much pain as a woman. However, it is difficult to tell this pain of men by looking at their gestures, because they hide the pain under silence. According to a debate.org poll, 48 percent of people believe that women love more deeply than men. At the same time, 52 percent of the people involved in the poll do not agree with it.
Are the predictions made so far correct?
According to debate.org, due to the different ways of expressing love, wrong estimates are made about the depth of love of women and men. From this it cannot be known who loves more. Women usually speak more, while men are not able to express their feelings openly. This does not mean that they do not feel an equally strong or deep emotional attachment.
Who falls in love faster?
Psychologist Marisa Harrison at Pennsylvania State University thinks that women are more cautious when it comes to love, while men tend to fall in love faster. Studies show that men's requirements to fall in love are much simpler and easier than women's. On the other hand, women fall in love very carefully. They decide on the basis of their ability to protect themselves and future children before falling in love with someone. Men decide to fall in love on very superficial criteria. Statistics also show that men believe more in love at first sight than women.
In how many days do men express themselves?
Harrison also conducted another study by surveying 172 college students. In this, the students were asked that how long did it take them to say I love you? The answers to the questions asked in his survey can surprise anyone. According to the study, male students often express their love within a few weeks. At the same time, women are much more cautious than them. They wait for several months before expressing their feelings. Many women remember their mothers who taught them not to be the first person to use the word 'love' in a relationship.
Men take longer to recover from breakup
Contrary to popular belief, when men fall in love, they love more deeply. Men live with more involvement in a relationship than women. That is why it is believed that men take more time than women to recover after a breakup. At the same time, when women are in need, they also get emotional support from their female friends. On the contrary, men feel uncomfortable sharing their intimate feelings with their male friends. In such a situation, women have been given a tip in many articles that if a man is hesitating to tell you his mind, then do not wait too long. If you also love him, then go and express yourself. Overall, it can be said that women and men are almost equal in terms of love. Just their ways of expression are different and this is what makes life beautiful.
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