There is a lot of change in the behaviour of children in teenage and this worries the parents. However, if some things are kept in mind, children can be handled properly at this age and they can be given proper guidance.
During teenage, that is, from about 14 to 18 years of age, children undergo physical as well as mental changes and at this age they make new friends, want to know, understand and explore new things. At this age, children are excited about everything, but many times they are unable to differentiate between right and wrong. In such a situation, it is important that parents give proper guidance to children and this is possible only when there is good communication between parents and children.
Due to the changes taking place in children during teenage, they may react in a way like not sharing things, becoming aggressive etc. During this time, parents have to handle the child very thoughtfully. So let's know some such tips so that the child will enjoy your company even in teenage and will not shy away from sharing things.
Avoid giving quick reactions
Every parent feels that their child is still young and because of this they react quickly when the child makes a mistake and because of this the child also reacts in return, which can create distance in the relationship. If the child makes a mistake, instead of reacting with anger immediately, explain to him calmly after some time that that thing is wrong for him.
keep this rule in mind
It is said that a child is like wet clay, so one should start molding him properly from an early age. This is true to a large extent. When you teach a child some things from childhood, then even at an older age he does not have any problem in sharing things or behaving. From birth to 5 years, the mind of a child is very innocent, so it is right to pamper him. After the age of 5, it is important to keep the child disciplined so that he makes it a habit later on. After this, when the child turns 10, you can scold him for mistakes by being decent and patient. At the same time, in teenage, it is important to be with the child like a friend, so that he can share his things.
Support the child
If the child does something wrong then it is the duty of the parents to scold and explain to him, similarly it is also important to support the child. Make the child feel that apart from the good times of life, you will also support him in difficult times. Along with focusing on studies, let the child choose his dreams according to what he wants to become.
Listen to the kids
In teenage, children make new friends and their curiosity to know things increases. In such a situation, it is important that when the child wants to tell you something, listen to him seriously. Even if you are busy, take out some time every day when you can have fun with your children in peace. Involve children in household decisions. This will not only make them understand their responsibilities, but communication between you and them will also improve.
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